Unwanted Pregnancies

Though unwanted pregnancies are not as talked about as they once were, they are still a huge problem. You may think of the teenage girl in trouble when you think of this, but there are many other times in life when a pregnancy is a huge surprise. In most cases, it should not be a surprise, as well all know how this happens, but that doesn’t mean it was wanted or that the person is ready or able to take care of a child.

Though there were a few unwanted pregnancies in my high school, the problem was bigger when I was in college. Though some of the girls had their babies, many did not. I would never judge someone by their choices, but many others will. I have always though we should worry about our own lives, and let others live theirs. Though I don’t like abortion, I don’t think it’s my place to tell someone what they should do and what they should not do. Unwanted pregnancies happen all the time, and it seems to be a huge issue for people who I think should mind their own business.

I know I am different than most, but I think what someone does about unwanted pregnancies is much like sexual orientation, political views, and religion. It is simply nobody’s business. If people would put all of the energy they put into tearing down others and challenging their choices into their own lives, they would have a much more fulfilling life. Unless someone’s choice about their sex life or their unwanted pregnancies directly puts your life in danger, you should really butt out and mind your own business. I know some of these issues affect everyone, but they are personal issues. No one has the right to belittle or harass someone about how they live as long as they are not breaking the law. You might find you are a happier person if you focus on yourself and your family instead of everyone else.

Though I feel that way about most of these things, there are thoughts I have about unwanted pregnancies. I would hope that each girl and each woman who is faced with this will at least give it some thought before they act. Don’t rush into your solution. In the case of unwanted pregnancies, you do have to think quickly, but make sure you weigh all of your options so you don’t question yourself when all is said and done. It is your business and your business alone, but make sure you can live with your choices.